The Hidden Cost of Being “The Strong One”
Have you ever found yourself looking around and realizing…
“Everyone leans on me. But who’s checking in on me?”
Whether it’s at work, at home, or in your friendships—you might be the one people count on.
You’re steady. Reliable. You know how to get things done and stay calm in the chaos.
And while that’s something to be proud of, here’s the honest truth:
Carrying it all, all the time, can get lonely.
Why Capable People Don’t Ask for Help
High-achievers tend to push through, take care of things, and keep going—even when they’re running on empty.
You might not look overwhelmed on the outside. But deep down, you’re:
Tired of having to lead in every room
Unsure where to turn when you need support
Longing for space to pause, reset, and just be human for a minute
Sound familiar?
You Don’t Have to Do It All Alone
Here’s something many people need to hear:
Strength doesn’t mean isolation.
You don’t have to hold it all together 24/7 to be worthy of support.
That’s why I created the Scattered to Steady™ Community – a space for high-achieving people who are tired of doing life on their own, with weekly live calls to help you regroup, refocus, and stay steady.
It’s not about fixing you or giving you more to do.
It’s about giving you space to:
Reflect on what matters
Make a real plan that fits your life
Show up consistently with support each week
Connect with people who get it"
What You Get Inside the Scattered to Steady™ Community
✔️ Four live calls each month to help you reflect, plan, and stay steady
✔️ Simple strategies to reduce overwhelm
✔️ Supportive community (no pressure to perform!)
✔️ Only $45/month—cancel anytime
This is for you if you’ve ever thought:
“I don’t need help, I just don’t want to carry all of this alone anymore.”
→ Click here to learn more and join us
Enneagram Insight: Strength Doesn’t Have to Be Lonely
Each Enneagram type has its own way of being strong, and its own struggle with asking for help.
Here’s a reminder for each type:
Type 1: Perfection isn’t required. Let someone in on the process.
Type 2: Asking for help can be an act of love too.
Type 3: You don’t have to impress to be worthy.
Type 4: Your story doesn’t have to be polished to be shared.
Type 5: Let someone support you—even just a little.
Type 6: You’re allowed to name your doubts.
Type 7: You don’t have to smile through the hard stuff.
Type 8: Strength and softness can coexist.
Type 9: Asking for support can bring real peace.
You don’t have to do this alone.
If you’re tired of carrying everything yourself, this community is built for you. No pressure to be perfect or have all the answers—just practical support and real people who get it.
→ Join the Scattered to Steady™ Community and start showing up for yourself.
