When May Feels Like December (But Without the Twinkle Lights)

It’s Maycember.

Have you heard that word before? It’s what a lot of moms are calling May these days—a month that feels just as packed and overwhelming as December, only with more emails and less holiday magic.

End-of-school events, projects, recitals, graduations, work deadlines, weddings—the list never seems to end, and it all happens at once. For many working moms, the mental load this time of year feels like too much. It’s no wonder so many of us feel like we’re in survival mode.

And while I know for some of you (hello to my southern hemisphere friends!) it might not be the end-of-school rush, I think we can all agree: there are seasons when life speeds up, the calendar takes over, and you’re just trying to hold everything together.

As a busy working mom, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed by all the responsibilities. You’re managing schedules, trying to remember every detail, and still expected to show up strong at work and home. This time of year? It can feel like too much.

Not to mention the emotional side of it.

The last-day-of-school tears.
The hopefulness of summer’s slower pace.
The stress of trying to make it all work without dropping a ball.

This year, May doesn’t feel quite as chaotic for our family.
Our girls are young adults now and no longer in school. Our son still has his final middle school band concert, but no big graduation. There’s our niece’s wedding in early June—but overall? It’s quieter.

And honestly? I’m so grateful.

Because with the life transitions and career shifts happening in our home, a packed Maycember calendar might’ve pushed me right over the edge.

But I remember those seasons well.
I remember what it felt like to be caught in the middle of my calendar running my life, trying to stay afloat.

So I just want to gently remind you:
You will get through this.
Focus on what’s in your control.
Celebrate what matters most, even if it’s messy and imperfect.

Take the pictures—but also put the camera down and be in the moment.

One of my favorite quotes is:
“An unreflected experience is a lost experience.” – Socrates

Even in the middle of the chaos, carve out a few minutes to breathe. Jot down a quick memory. Reflect on what this season is showing you—not just what it’s asking of you.

Because I’ve seen real change happen for my clients—not by crossing more off their to-do list, but by approaching their season with more intention, more grace, and less pressure to get it all right.

Sometimes that starts with giving yourself permission to let go of perfection.

That’s exactly why I created the Working Moms Circle™.

It’s not about doing more—it’s about learning how to manage work and life in a way that actually works for you. You’ll get practical tools, honest support, and space to reset—not another unrealistic “productivity hack.”

Inside the Circle, you’ll learn how to simplify your routines, manage your energy, and stop carrying it all alone.

If this May feels like a lot, you’re not alone.
If you're looking for support for working moms, you're in the right place.

The Circle opens soon, and I’d love to have you join us.
Get on the interest list here.

And if you know another mom who’s quietly drowning in the pressure right now?
Forward this blog to her. Invite her to join the Working Moms Circle™ with you.

Sometimes the best gift we can give is space to breathe, be seen, and feel less alone.

With you in the Maycember rush!

Tami Holladay

I love coaching busy people to simplify life, build intentional habits, and take imperfect action-because done with grace is better than perfect!

https://holladaycoaching.com/
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